Then last week we were able to work things out to where he isnt leaving until November 29th. This means that hell get to see the birth and spend a few months with her and get to go back to Utah for Halloween (if leave gets approved). Then after he is there for a few weeks he gets to come home for Christmas break ( 2 weeks) which will be nice again for the sake of the kids and my sanity!
We arent certain what is going on with me and the kids as of now but we have heard rumors that they are going to try to get us moved out sometime in January so we can be there when the boys arrive in San Diego. Its not official yet. but if thats the case Josh will again get to come home and take leave to move us out there so again, more time with us!
The other option that they are considering is having us ( there is one other sailor who has a wife and a son (2) and is due the day after me) stay here until the ship pulls into California in June / July and then sending the boys back to get us and move us out then.....
I prefer the other option but I really dont have a say. It really sucks because in talking to the higher ups we found out that Josh and the other guy werent even supposed to come out to Virginia they were supposed to go directly to San Diego BECAUSE they have families where as no one else does. Every one is really confused as to how we ended up here?! Go figure! But We keep praying that we will get to go out in January, and that Joshs ship will be finished ahead of schedule so he can come home sooner!
If you do the math. If Josh ends up being gone till July we will have lived together for 10 out of the 30 months he will have been in the Navy at that point!
Its weird because I keep talking to different wives and they all say they have never heard of people getting such crappy luck with the Navy. No one has ever heard of half the things we have to do and go through but for some reason Josh and I are just that special! I guess God really really loves us??! I dont know! But the good news is that at some point in time we will be in San Diego and we will be closer to family and we will be in nicer weather! No kidding people I hate the weather out here! I like Virginia and the experience is cool but I hate the heat and it is so stinken hot out here! Just one more way we are so very lucky! Record heat this year! It got really hot really early and no one can remember the last time it was this hot! Also the worst allergy year and the worst/ coldest winter! How do we end up getting oh so lucky??!